Getting over a break up?

[oneeye]

Men eh......

Relationships eh........

[russycarps]

 

Me too. Some clue as to her motivation might make some sense. Does she want to get back together with you?

 

She's looking for an ego boost.

edit goddamit why has the quoting gone all crazy??

Edited December 8, 2014 by russycarps

[russycarps]

 

In what way?

 

to see how devastated he's been by the break-up, to hear him beg her to take him back.

Everybody likes to feel desired and wanted. And what better way of showing that is there than for someone's life to fall apart because they are no longer with her?

of course it will be shrouded by her saying she is just worried about him or somesuch.

[jump]

with a possibility that she might want to get back?

Whilst it is up to Couchy to decide if he does want her back or not he'll be off his fucking nut to do it based on this thread.

[russycarps]

 

with a possibility that she might want to get back?

how long a list do you want?

 

I'm presuming that she isnt contacting him to get back together, or couchy would surely have told us as it's a pretty crucial detail!

[russycarps]

why the crapping fuck does it say   whenever I quote a post!!

Edited December 8, 2014 by russycarps

[russycarps]

 

precisely. All I've ever seen him say is that he's ignoring her

 

I think he's said she's text him a few times. It would be pretty hard to delete a text without succumbing to the temptation of reading it. I reckon he has been reading/listening at least some of her messages (hopefully he will confirm).

[kaosmark2]

I haven't read anything from Couchy to suggest he'd be off his nut to consider it

there's been lots of curious interpretations of her motivations which have confused me

I have.

He's made it clear to her he wants to be left alone. She's disregarded that despite the early contact making it clear he's been really struggling.

[russycarps]

Which says nothing about what she has said to him

We dont know what she's said, hence the fact we are speculating and making assumptions.

Personally, I think it is more likely to be "hows it goin hun?" "Y R U ignoring me babe" general chit-chat bullshit rather than anything profound.

[russycarps]

Guessing what she might have said, then basing what advice to give on that seems pretty pointless

Welcome to the internet.

[kaosmark2]

Which says nothing about what she has said to him

Still shows a reason he shouldn't get back together. She doesn't consider his feelings. That's a pretty big reason.

[Bisque]

She text me last night whilst I was with someone else. Poor timing.

[jump]

She text me last night whilst I was with someone else. Poor timing.

Sounds like perfect timing to me...

 

"Hey, sorry but I can't chat right now I've got a new bird"

Edited September 7, 2015 by jump

[fred quimby]

 Poor timing.

 

Money shot Time?

[russycarps]

She text me last night whilst I was with someone else. Poor timing.

 

 

why did she text you after all this time?

 

Presumably she's been dumped and her clits got itchy.

[Katster]

Saying what?

[TheWaters]

On 9/13/2015 at 7:06 PM, Katster said:

Saying what?

Proper cliffhanger this.

whatd she say @Bisque?

[Bisque]

19 hours ago, TheWaters said:

Proper cliffhanger this.

whatd she say @Bisque?

Her nan died.

[DareToDibble]

Well the change of username from Couchy (as it is in everyone else's comments quoting him) to @Bisque took me a fair amount of time to figure out there.

[WS_Jack_III]

Just read through all this. As someone who really struggles with rejection it was interesting to read. I have always been the person dumped in all of my relationships and I really beat myself up about it. Recently dated my teenage crush and thought it was going to be happy ever after stuff but she broke it off twice within 6 months, feels like the equivalent of that saying 'Never meet your heroes".

 

"Never date your teenage crush 15 years later" 

🤣

[Bisque]

Wow I never realised something I wrote in a time of darkness would be cropping up again 6 years later!

I hope you are all well in this time of no Glastonbury, little to look forward to and simply dangerous times for some. Stay safe. Much love.

[yehbutnobut]

This is thread is absolute gold 😂 Literally reading it thinking 'fuck off, this is staged' or material for a new sitcom or something, and I'm only on page 5! I will be returning, so thank you for making my inevitable self isolation in the coming days a lot less drab.

P.s. was much more of a lurker when Russy was around, afraid he'd tear me a new one if I ever posted. Anyone know where he got to & if he'll ever return?

Edited March 23, 2020 by yehbutnobut
Cant spell

[eFestivals]

8 hours ago, yehbutnobut said:

Anyone know where he got to & if he'll ever return?

not sure what he's up to, but I msg'd him a while after he last posted and he said he'd be back one day.

[Brave Sir Robin]

2 hours ago, eFestivals said:

not sure what he's up to, but I msg'd him a while after he last posted and he said he'd be back one day.

That’s good to hear. I thought he might have dropped off this mortal coil.

[Zoo Music Girl]

We could do with him now tbh.