Getting over a break up?

[atomised]

If you're not sleeping it could be worth asking the doctor for something to help as long as it doesn't affect you day to.day and you just use it when you really need.it

[Bisque]

I was smashing lots of diazempam when travelling in Vietnam on overnight coach journey's. The herbal stuff here has no effect.

[atomised]

I used to use a lot of diazepam. Its pretty much the only thing that works for me now

[Bisque]

Any way of getting it here?

[atomised]

Aside from prescribed nowhere I know of these days

[Bisque]

Ahh I don't want to rely on alcohol to make me forget. I just have so much trouble sleeping with her turning up in my dreams. Its like I've run out of dreams recently.

[feral chile]

Sleep is important. Sleep deprivation causes your brain to bypass the rational parts and you get more emotional.

Look up sleep deprivation and the amygdala, if you're interested.

An accessible summary:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/06/27/anxiety-sleep-deprivation_n_3504639.html

Edited November 17, 2014 by feral chile

[Katster]

I used to work as cabin crew so have lots of gay mates who want to take me out & have even offered to let me stay with them but not great for going on the pull.

Going on the pull is not great for going on the pull...

[Bisque]

Going on the pull is not great for going on the pull...

Yeah I realised that a couple of years ago. I'm never going to pay for it & if I'm not in the right place to shag around I've realised I'm comfortable with that. I'm not in a competition with mates or her, I just need to be happy & level headed again.

Or at a festival.

[Yoghurt on a Stick]

Yeah I realised that a couple of years ago. I'm never going to pay for it & if I'm not in the right place to shag around I've realised I'm comfortable with that. I'm not in a competition with mates or her, I just need to be happy & level headed again.

Or at a festival.

Then I'd say you need to concentrate on you and your future, and what it is exactly that you want from it. Compromise and you waste years of your life. I know, I've been there. Wishing you all the best. Yog.

[Bisque]

My friend split with his missus for around three months, she slept with 10+ people because she could, he struggled getting 1 before getting back together.

Would you get back together with someone in that situation?

It could go either way & I'm not being horrible to either sex, it happened.

[atomised]

I'm not sure I would to be honest, it'd feel like too much had changed

[russycarps]

My friend split with his missus for around three months, she slept with 10+ people because she could, he struggled getting 1 before getting back together.

Would you get back together with someone in that situation?

It could go either way & I'm not being horrible to either sex, it happened.

I wouldn't. I suspect that will play on his mind and be brought up every time they have argument.

Though maybe some people would be fine with it. Love is blind.

[jump]

My friend split with his missus for around three months, she slept with 10+ people because she could, he struggled getting 1 before getting back together.

Would you get back together with someone in that situation?

It could go either way & I'm not being horrible to either sex, it happened.

Well rebounding is one way of dealing with a break up but is the reason the guy only slept with one because the other girls weren't intrested?

Personally it depends on why the break up happened in the first place.

Edited November 20, 2014 by jump

[russycarps]

Well rebounding is one way of dealing with a break up but is the reason the guy only slept with one because he other girls weren't intrested?

Sounds like it.

I'd be pretty bitter sat there thinking about my failed attempts to get my leg over even once while envisioning my girlfriend climbing aboard a dozen pork swords in a month!

It would never work, surely.

[Yoghurt on a Stick]

Would you get back together with someone in that situation?

Never. I was really messed about by an ex girlfriend and put up with an awful lot of shit. I now realise why I allowed this shit to go on. Fortunately I have now resolved this mental issue, and am now strong enough to not let myself be taken advantage of again - although this is now unlikely as I now have a fiercely loyal loving wife.

I would seriously doubt whether your mates girlfriend has what would be deemed as appropriate feelings for the bloke. OK, it's her choice to sleep with 10+ blokes in three months, but it's almost callous to then go back to the bloke and fuck his head up all over again after the initial split.

[The Nal]

10+ in 3 months..... 12 weeks?!

If you take into account for about 25% of that she was out of commission (unless she was taking it up the wrong) then thats just over 1 bloke per week. Mighty impressive.

And he got back with her? Whats his problem?

Edited November 20, 2014 by The Nal

[jump]

A lot of girls I've known enjoy sex when they are "out of commission".

[zero000]

Go with the flow.

Wouldn't fancy doing that with some random woman I don't know though.

[LondonTom]

A lot of girls I've known enjoy sex when they are "out of commission".

I wasn't told once....my poor poor bedsheets

[Yoghurt on a Stick]

....my poor poor bedsheets

When I was a teenager and also w*nking for my country, I used to turn perfectly fine soft cotton sheets into a strange sort of cotton/sperm combo that kind of looked like Formica, in parts.

I guess that may be more information than you all needed. My apologies.

[Bisque]

I guess that may be more information than you all needed. My apologies.

Many have joined the club

[jump]

I wasn't told once....my poor poor bedsheets

Really? Multiple girls have told me it makes them horny, it's more senstive so they enjoy it more aswell as the orgasm releasing endorphins to help with any pain being "out of commission" may cause.

[lost]

Yep nowt wrong with it. Get your face down there as well and come up looking like David Dickinson

[Yoghurt on a Stick]

All this dirty talk reminds me of the time when I misused part of the contents of a tub of Utterly Butterly. Did you know that it has 70% less saturated fat than butter, and is virtually trans fatty acid free?