eFestivals Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 Just now, thetime said: He said an inappropriate joke that fell flat, it’s not the end of the world. Sexual harassment is banded out willy nilly these days. nicely put. As I see it, if there's any sexism to it it's not in the wording of the 'joke', it's within making a trivialising joke where he (perhaps? I've no idea) wouldn't have made a similarly trivialising joke to the male winner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zahidf Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 19 minutes ago, eFestivals said: nicely put. As I see it, if there's any sexism to it it's not in the wording of the 'joke', it's within making a trivialising joke where he (perhaps? I've no idea) wouldn't have made a similarly trivialising joke to the male winner. He did not make a similar joke for the men's award. For some reason he treated them with more respect. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaosmark2 Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 It's saying a woman's sexuality is more important than what she's successful for. It's a demeaning and sexist comment. It's not sexual harassment (and I'm not sure who thinks it is?) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Nal Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 1 hour ago, thetime said: He said an inappropriate joke that fell flat, it’s not the end of the world. Sexual harassment is banded out willy nilly these days. Hardly sexual harassment but clearly very sexist. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zahidf Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 7 minutes ago, kaosmark2 said: It's saying a woman's sexuality is more important than what she's successful for. It's a demeaning and sexist comment. It's not sexual harassment (and I'm not sure who thinks it is?) I'm also not sure it's sexual harassment. It's clearly massively sexist and he deserves to get shit for it. I'm not sure you can justify massive sexism if your presenting an award which is for women. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eFestivals Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 13 minutes ago, kaosmark2 said: It's saying a woman's sexuality gender is more important than what she's successful for. as it was for the award itself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaosmark2 Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 5 minutes ago, zahidf said: I'm also not sure it's sexual harassment. It's clearly massively sexist and he deserves to get shit for it. I'm not sure you can justify massive sexism if your presenting an award which is for women. He is getting a load of shit for it, which I'm fine with. He won't be asked to present awards like this again, which I'm fine with. That's as far as I expect it to go though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaosmark2 Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 4 minutes ago, eFestivals said: as it was for the award itself. The award both highlights and defines the gender imbalance. I'm not disagreeing with that. Whether it's a good or bad thing I'm not sure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zahidf Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 6 minutes ago, kaosmark2 said: The award both highlights and defines the gender imbalance. I'm not disagreeing with that. Whether it's a good or bad thing I'm not sure. Most awards have male and female categories. That's how the sport itself is split as well. I'm not sure having an award for best female footballer is inherently sexist. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eFestivals Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 5 minutes ago, kaosmark2 said: The award both highlights and defines the gender imbalance. I'm not disagreeing with that. Whether it's a good or bad thing I'm not sure. but if there are differences to the sexes and they can be recognised...? (and the fact of that award says they can be) It ends up as just a shit and inappropriate joke, like asking a top chef if he/she's good at washing up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zahidf Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 Ha ha ha ha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wooderson Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 Ubercringe at that clueless DJ's comments. What a prick. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaosmark2 Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 9 minutes ago, eFestivals said: but if there are differences to the sexes and they can be recognised...? (and the fact of that award says they can be) It ends up as just a shit and inappropriate joke, like asking a top chef if he/she's good at washing up. It's a gender charged joke that sexualises her instead of focusing on whatever she's talented at. It's not the lack of wit that makes it shit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zahidf Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 Ha! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eFestivals Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 14 minutes ago, kaosmark2 said: It's a gender charged joke that sexualises her instead of focusing on whatever she's talented at. It's not the lack of wit that makes it shit. That can only work if twerking is always indisputably about sex and nothing else. That's an idea that's rejected for other dances. I agree that it trivialises the talent she's being recognised for, which is where I see it as shit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wooderson Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 Neil is this really the molehill youre prepared to die on? Sheesh, take a holiday. ? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WS_Jack_III Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 It was sexist. I have no idea why he thought it would be a good thing to say. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eFestivals Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 11 minutes ago, Wooderson said: Neil is this really the molehill youre prepared to die on? Sheesh, take a holiday. ? Hey, I think he was a dick no different to you. But the offence is in trivialising her achievement, not anywhere else. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Nal Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 On a different note, the Utd team that beat Arsenal 8-2 under Fergie. Fergie should receive a sainthood. De Gea Jones Smalling Evans Evra Nani Cleverley Anderson Young Welbeck Rooney Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheGayTent Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 Only tells half the story - what was the arsenal team? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WS_Jack_III Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 In other women's football news, former student of the school I work at, Beth Mead, was voted FSF player of the year! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Nal Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 (edited) 31 minutes ago, TheGayTent said: Only tells half the story - what was the arsenal team? Szcezny, Jenkinson, Dourou, Koscielny, Traore, Ramsey, Coquelin, Rosicky, Walcott, Van Persie, Arshavin. A freak of a result but any team with that Utd lineup scoring 8 seems miraculous looking at the last few years. That Utd team finished on 89 points winning 28 from 38 and 89 goals scored. So was Fergie that good or are Moyes, LVG and Jose just bad? Anyway still chuckling to myself about Griezmann finishing ahead of Messi. And hes not happy about not winning it! Edited December 4, 2018 by The Nal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wooderson Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 5 hours ago, The Nal said: Szcezny, Jenkinson, Dourou, Koscielny, Traore, Ramsey, Coquelin, Rosicky, Walcott, Van Persie, Arshavin. A freak of a result but any team with that Utd lineup scoring 8 seems miraculous looking at the last few years. That Utd team finished on 89 points winning 28 from 38 and 89 goals scored. So was Fergie that good or are Moyes, LVG and Jose just bad? Anyway still chuckling to myself about Griezmann finishing ahead of Messi. And hes not happy about not winning it! Bit of both. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thetime Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 5 hours ago, The Nal said: Szcezny, Jenkinson, Dourou, Koscielny, Traore, Ramsey, Coquelin, Rosicky, Walcott, Van Persie, Arshavin. A freak of a result but any team with that Utd lineup scoring 8 seems miraculous looking at the last few years. That Utd team finished on 89 points winning 28 from 38 and 89 goals scored. So was Fergie that good or are Moyes, LVG and Jose just bad? Anyway still chuckling to myself about Griezmann finishing ahead of Messi. And hes not happy about not winning it! Can’t only be me who day dreams of fergie clothes lining Jose and signing a 3 year contract. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheGayTent Posted December 4, 2018 Report Share Posted December 4, 2018 6 hours ago, The Nal said: Szcezny, Jenkinson, Dourou, Koscielny, Traore, Ramsey, Coquelin, Rosicky, Walcott, Van Persie, Arshavin. There you are - Van Persie aside that’s a very ordinary (polite) Arsenal side. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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