jump Posted January 27, 2011 Report Share Posted January 27, 2011 Who is it that keeps -1ing Gemstarrr? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lharris92 Posted January 27, 2011 Report Share Posted January 27, 2011 more than one person apparently... and it seems they've taken a disliking to you :/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jump Posted January 27, 2011 Report Share Posted January 27, 2011 Meh. I'm just curious as every time I see a Gemstarrr post it has a negative against it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lolbeck Posted January 27, 2011 Report Share Posted January 27, 2011 Who is it that keeps -1ing Gemstarrr? I noticed that too. I keep +1ing her because I feel bad for her haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lharris92 Posted January 27, 2011 Report Share Posted January 27, 2011 i'm really hurt by the -1's im getting :angry: just kidding e-rep means nothing to me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rachbon Posted January 27, 2011 Report Share Posted January 27, 2011 Each to their own, of course. exactly. some people will be ready to get engaged at 21-23, some won't be. people are different. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ampersand Posted January 27, 2011 Author Report Share Posted January 27, 2011 i'm never getting married. f**k that shit! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gre Posted January 27, 2011 Report Share Posted January 27, 2011 exactly. some people will be ready to get engaged at 21-23, some won't be. people are different. Exactly. I think one major thing is when you leave education and enter the 'real' world. Someone who leaves school and home at 16 'grows up' a lot sooner than someone who stays at home/uni digs until they are 21/22. FWIW, I got engaged at 26 & my fiancé was 25. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rexclark Posted January 27, 2011 Report Share Posted January 27, 2011 It is all down to the indvidual. I'm 29 now and feel like I could get engaged but a few years ago I was no where near ready. I would say i was quite immature but some people are alot more level headed at a younger age. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
feral chile Posted January 27, 2011 Report Share Posted January 27, 2011 (edited) Exactly. I think one major thing is when you leave education and enter the 'real' world. Someone who leaves school and home at 16 'grows up' a lot sooner than someone who stays at home/uni digs until they are 21/22. FWIW, I got engaged at 26 & my fiancé was 25. yeah I left school at 16. I always had older friends too - I met my future husband at 16 and he was 22, when I eventually went to uni my friends were about a decade older than me, people my own age always seemed so young. Though I do seem to be maturing backwards. Edited January 27, 2011 by feral chile Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brighteyes Posted January 27, 2011 Report Share Posted January 27, 2011 I don't really have any 'rules' on age, but I think that you should live alone together for at least a year or two before getting engaged/married. Learning from my parents' mistakes, here. Having said that, I'm nowhere near ready, at 25. Maybe when I've settled down into a career and matured a bit I'll be ready, at least a couple of years though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ampersand Posted January 27, 2011 Author Report Share Posted January 27, 2011 Maybe when I've matured a bit unlikely! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brighteyes Posted January 27, 2011 Report Share Posted January 27, 2011 unlikely! Yeah a good place to start might be me ceasing calling myself 'The P-Cock'... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saratink Posted January 27, 2011 Report Share Posted January 27, 2011 It is all down to the indvidual. I'm 29 now and feel like I could get engaged but a few years ago I was no where near ready. I would say i was quite immature but some people are alot more level headed at a younger age. Ohh Rachel, it's time to start mentioning what kind of rings you like and leaving ones you already own out so he get the right size Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ampersand Posted January 28, 2011 Author Report Share Posted January 28, 2011 Ohh Rachel, it's time to start mentioning what kind of rings you like and leaving ones you already own out so he get the right size i'm sure a haribo ring would do rachel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
feral chile Posted January 28, 2011 Report Share Posted January 28, 2011 I don't really have any 'rules' on age, but I think that you should live alone together for at least a year or two before getting engaged/married. Learning from my parents' mistakes, here. Having said that, I'm nowhere near ready, at 25. Maybe when I've settled down into a career and matured a bit I'll be ready, at least a couple of years though. To be honest I'm surprised non religious people still get married. There are no social, legal or financial benefits any more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gre Posted January 28, 2011 Report Share Posted January 28, 2011 i'm sure a haribo ring would do rachel My mate proposed using one of them... surprisingly she said yes! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saratink Posted January 28, 2011 Report Share Posted January 28, 2011 My mate proposed using one of them... surprisingly she said yes! I'd say yes to a haribo ring because it's not the ring that makes you say yes.. However, i would like a real ring to wear Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amy246 Posted February 2, 2011 Report Share Posted February 2, 2011 How do i get a sweet natured, kind, considerate, kinda shy guy to let me know if he likes me? We talk quite a bit, text, fb message - all nice friendly stuff, however i want a hint that he may like me more than that but i know he doesn't seem the type to go flirty/dirty/etc. Asked him on a night out with friends for this weekend a while ago and he never replied. Part of me just wants to get him drunk so he looses his inhibitions! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jump Posted February 2, 2011 Report Share Posted February 2, 2011 How do i get a sweet natured, kind, considerate, kinda shy guy to let me know if he likes me? We talk quite a bit, text, fb message - all nice friendly stuff, however i want a hint that he may like me more than that but i know he doesn't seem the type to go flirty/dirty/etc. Asked him on a night out with friends for this weekend a while ago and he never replied. Part of me just wants to get him drunk so he looses his inhibitions! Engage him on his terms, sounds like he may not like drinking so find something he does like it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sadwitch Posted February 2, 2011 Report Share Posted February 2, 2011 Engage him on his terms, sounds like he may not like drinking so find something he does like it. Don't get engaged. That would seem a little forward. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amy246 Posted February 2, 2011 Report Share Posted February 2, 2011 Engage him on his terms, sounds like he may not like drinking so find something he does like it. I know he doesn't mind the odd drink, but i just want him to feel more comfortable around me and maybe just let his guard down a little. Just though drinks werent too formal or date like and can just be matey for now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gemstarrr Posted February 3, 2011 Report Share Posted February 3, 2011 Who is it that keeps -1ing Gemstarrr? i thought it was a couple of middle aged male posters who seemed to take a disliking to me a while back. and then i thought it was people who just didn't agree with what i'm posting. but it's getting ridiculous on every thing i post now so if so many people don't want me here i'll just f**k off to a different board. festival goers are usually laidback, open, friendly people who i thought i'd most like to light heartedly 'discuss' random life goings on with. obviously i was wrong. thought i'd left this kind of pathetic bitchiness back in high school. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gre Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 i thought it was a couple of middle aged male posters who seemed to take a disliking to me a while back. and then i thought it was people who just didn't agree with what i'm posting. but it's getting ridiculous on every thing i post now so if so many people don't want me here i'll just f**k off to a different board festival goers are usually laidback, open, friendly people who i thought i'd most like to light heartedly 'discuss' random life goings on with. obviously i was wrong. thought i'd left this kind of pathetic bitchiness back in high school. Don't let the bastards grind you down, who cares what a couple of anonymous saddos think. It's not as if the +s and -s mean anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katster Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 i thought it was a couple of middle aged male posters who seemed to take a disliking to me a while back. and then i thought it was people who just didn't agree with what i'm posting. but it's getting ridiculous on every thing i post now so if so many people don't want me here i'll just f**k off to a different board. festival goers are usually laidback, open, friendly people who i thought i'd most like to light heartedly 'discuss' random life goings on with. obviously i was wrong. thought i'd left this kind of pathetic bitchiness back in high school. I've had a fair few of mine minused too, consecutively. Don't let it get to you. Whoever it is (or if it's just coincidence) it really doesn't matter so much Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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