singles thread

[LondonTom]

Then why do some older women prefer younger men then? It can't always be about resources. Older women are likely to have resources of their own.

They take television drama's to seriously?

[feral chile]

They take television drama's to seriously?

or maybe it's the younger men confusing fantasy with reality?

[AcademicPistol]

Perception is reality.

[feral chile]

Perception is reality.

if perception is subjective, so then must be reality. But if two people share the same experience from vastly different perspectives - what then?

Edited November 30, 2012 by feral chile

[AcademicPistol]

if perception is subjective, so then must be reality. But if two people share the same experience from vastly different perspectives - what then?

If two people perceive the same experience differently?

We all know people percieve some things differently...

I probably misunderstood that's what I get for being playfully thought-provoking

[feral chile]

If two people perceive the same experience differently?

We all know people percieve some things differently...

I probably misunderstood that's what I get for being playfully thought-provoking

I was just thinking how the younger/older participants would perceive their versions of reality. Then there's those looking on, both young and old, and their value judgments.

One event, so many realities.

[saratink]

i'm on a popular dating show this saturday, going to be an amusing week

Just seen your date. Ampersand and I are wondering, did you get a second (and maybe a 3rd/4th/5th) date?

[nightcrawler13]

Just seen your date. Ampersand and I are wondering, did you get a second (and maybe a 3rd/4th/5th) date?

ha, nooooo

watch the gossip to see what really happened

[saratink]

ha, nooooo

watch the gossip to see what really happened

Hah. Are you still single?

[Bisque]

ha, nooooo

watch the gossip to see what really happened

Ahhhh no!

Seemed to go really well!

I'd love to see someone I know go on it but I don't think I could do it myself so props!

[Reptile]

I was just thinking how the younger/older participants would perceive their versions of reality. Then there's those looking on, both young and old, and their value judgments.

One event, so many realities.

I dont think it is an age/number thing, with age comes life experience and self awareness. And everyone is different. Age Shmage!! makes no difference. Compatibility is the key...

[feral chile]

I dont think it is an age/number thing, with age comes life experience and self awareness. And everyone is different. Age Shmage!! makes no difference. Compatibility is the key...

In an ideal world, I'd agree. But there'd be lots of pressures from the people around you.

Especially family. I'd imagine it'd be difficult for a much older partner to meet the family of the younger one.

[AcademicPistol]

In an ideal world, I'd agree. But there'd be lots of pressures from the people around you.

Especially family. I'd imagine it'd be difficult for a much older partner to meet the family of the younger one.

Especially if they are older than the parents of their partner.

[Reptile]

oh totally, good point well made. I know that scenario from personal experience, But they are external factors. I guess age difference can create awkward situations like that. but if compatible that shouldnt matter too much. Family, although important, should not be a major part in a relationship. I think anyway.

[nightcrawler13]

first girl in nearly two years that I've felt something could progress with...

emails me to let me know she can't hack the time apart and has found someone else

up goes the emotional fortress for another year

[jump]

Why is it that as soon as someone is in a break up and then decide they want to see their mates that they have spent ages ignoring you're not allowed to give them shit over it?

[AcademicPistol]

Why is it that as soon as someone is in a break up and then decide they want to see their mates that they have spent ages ignoring you're not allowed to give them shit over it?

Bros before hoes and all that.

[LondonTom]

Why is it that as soon as someone is in a break up and then decide they want to see their mates that they have spent ages ignoring you're not allowed to give them shit over it?

Cos they need a support network now their beloved has left them Because they didn't mean to ignore it /got caught up in the whole relationship thing etc.

I am with you there, they've got to earn that right to be given a shit about back (but they will do the exact same thing the next time a beloved is on the scene.)

[jump]

Cos they need a support network now their beloved has left them Because they didn't mean to ignore it /got caught up in the whole relationship thing etc.

I am with you there, they've got to earn that right to be given a shit about back (but they will do the exact same thing the next time a beloved is on the scene.)

I meant shit as in "give them shit" or ball breaking rather than caring, you are forced to be sympathetic and can't make mention anything negative etc because they are heart broken.

I can't stand people like that, I've been with my girlfriend for over a year yet I still manage to go out drinking with my friends.

[gemstarrr]

You'll need to get Neil to delete the posts but you can just edit it them instead but if someone quoted you then it's stuck.

It's good to see you back, reminds me of the good ol' fun days of this thread of calling Ampersand & Pogo gay lovers and petty arguements.

Thanks. Went through editing posts but got bored. now just to sort out my -35 rep...ah well everyone has to be young and naive at some point right? haha

I used to spend hours on here!

What's the latest goss?

also nightcrawler on take me out?! what date episode? i have to watch!

[Yoghurt on a Stick]

I can't stand people like that, I've been with my girlfriend for over a year yet I still manage to go out drinking with my friends.

Thank you. You've just helped me make a decision. I've been ignoring my friends because of a new'ish relationship. My mates are all going out this Saturday and I have now decided I am too.

[atomised]

Always a good choice friends are there long after relationships fade

[nightcrawler13]

also nightcrawler on take me out?! what date episode? i have to watch!

season 4, episode 8

[jump]

Urgh! I've found out one of my friends is in love with me.

[nightcrawler13]

Urgh! I've found out one of my friends is in love with me.

i'm guessing you are not pleased with this information?