singles thread

[jump]

I gave up on dating sites, met a few girls and they are all nutters or social rejects.

Just put up a decent pic and send them a message that's complimentary/common interests/shown that you've read her profile and has room for the talk to expand (asking her questions, not about 1 specifically ect) and don't send something that is miles long to read.

[Snufflebutt]

Just put up a decent pic and send them a message that's complimentary/common interests/shown that you've read her profile and has room for the talk to expand (asking her questions, not about 1 specifically ect) and don't send something that is miles long to read.

Did all this and no replies. I must be a munt of some sort

[ampersand]

i set up an account on plenty of fish with just a pic of boobs in a bra and vest. in a minute i got 12 messages from guys being very suggestive and got 3 pics of cocks.

[jump]

i set up an account on plenty of fish with just a pic of boobs in a bra and vest. in a minute i got 12 messages from guys being very suggestive and got 3 pics of cocks.

So which one are you going to go out with?

[ampersand]

So which one are you going to go out with?

the one with the most girth!

nah, my account got deleted after about 5 minutes

[Lithium05]

Well I bit the bullet and asked out the girl I've been chatting to on plenty of fish, first time I've asked someone out in a long time, quite nervous about checking the inbox.

My IPod was being no help at all last night in terms of building confidence, no word of a lie the run of songs on a random shuffle after sending the email went-

Why Bother - Weezer

Shot down in Flames - AC/DC

Mr Brightside - The Killers

Loser - Beck

[Lithium05]

:D :D :D

[spwan-of-the-devil]

:D :D :D

Nice one dude

[ampersand]

:D :D :D

get your hopes down.

pleased for you, but don't go she might end up being shite in person

[jump]

Is it just me or is do people find it weird that if you're a talking to a girl that doesn't know you start calling you mate? Doesn't sound right to me the same way it would with a guy.

[lharris92]

Is it just me or is do people find it weird that if you're a talking to a girl that doesn't know you start calling you mate? Doesn't sound right to me the same way it would with a guy.

i used to find it weird but then again if people don't know your name then they just say mate..

anyhow on topic...

known this girl since i started uni and it dawned on me a few weeks back that i really liked her, and we were casually flirting until i find out she's going out with another friend unofficially for months and officially since just after the flirting began. just my luck

[rexclark]

Wrong Thread.

Edited May 12, 2011 by rexclark

[lharris92]

Scottish football is a f**king embaressment. To be honest it's things like last night that make me glad we're playing in Division 1 next season.

wrong thread?

[rexclark]

wrong thread?

Er aye. The point still stands.

[jump]

i used to find it weird but then again if people don't know your name then they just say mate..

anyhow on topic...

known this girl since i started uni and it dawned on me a few weeks back that i really liked her, and we were casually flirting until i find out she's going out with another friend unofficially for months and officially since just after the flirting began. just my luck

I'm more in interested in a girl's thoughts on it as I reckon it could be one of those "you're like a brother to me" or "your friendship is important to me" subtle disarm the situation things, she could just be a ladette though.

Edited May 13, 2011 by jump

[saratink]

I'm more in interested in a girl's thoughts on it as I reckon it could be one of those "you're like a brother to me" or "your friendship is important to me" subtle disarm the situation things, she could just be a ladette though.

I don't know, I wouldn't call a lad I fancied mate..I dont really call anyone mate. But if a man called me mate I wouldn't think he fancied me as it sounds too manly

[brighteyes]

I've got this mate, who's been with his girlfriend for about 7 months, but it's still really difficult to make her climax during love-making. But he's a selfless lover so he keeps going til it happens, so the love-making is going on for like, 40 minutes each time, it's almost torture after about 20 minutes. [My mate says]. Good love-making should never last longer than 15 minutes. [in my mate's opinion]

Has anyone got any tips? [For my mate, he's red-raw]

Thanks [on behalf of my mate]

[Snufflebutt]

I've got this mate, who's been with his girlfriend for about 7 months, but it's still really difficult to make her climax during love-making. But he's a selfless lover so he keeps going til it happens, so the love-making is going on for like, 40 minutes each time, it's almost torture after about 20 minutes. [My mate says]. Good love-making should never last longer than 15 minutes. [in my mate's opinion]

Has anyone got any tips? [For my mate, he's red-raw]

Thanks [on behalf of my mate]

Finger. Bum.

Edited May 14, 2011 by Snufflebutt

[feral chile]

I've got this mate, who's been with his girlfriend for about 7 months, but it's still really difficult to make her climax during love-making. But he's a selfless lover so he keeps going til it happens, so the love-making is going on for like, 40 minutes each time, it's almost torture after about 20 minutes. [My mate says]. Good love-making should never last longer than 15 minutes. [in my mate's opinion]

Has anyone got any tips? [For my mate, he's red-raw]

Thanks [on behalf of my mate]

Not all women climax during sex, so he's doing something right!

Foreplay, obviously. Get her going beforehand so she's already halfway there. And plenty of friction. It's often the way she moves that makes the difference. It's supposed to be easier if she's on top.

linky

Edited May 14, 2011 by feral chile

[brighteyes]

Finger. Bum.

Serious suggestions, please. That was the first thing he tried. And the second and third.

Not all women climax during sex, so he's doing something right!

Foreplay, obviously. Get her going beforehand so she's already halfway there. And plenty of friction. It's often the way she moves that makes the difference. It's supposed to be easier if she's on top.

linky

Yeah I've been with a girl who had never had an orgasm, even by herself. Mental.

Thanks for the tips. Foreplay doesn't seem to help. In fact it seems quite random as to whether or not she will climax, there's no discernible pattern.

[feral chile]

Serious suggestions, please. That was the first thing he tried. And the second and third.

Yeah I've been with a girl who had never had an orgasm, even by herself. Mental.

Thanks for the tips. Foreplay doesn't seem to help. In fact it seems quite random as to whether or not she will climax, there's no discernible pattern.

It's not as mechanical for women as it is for men. Women have to be in the right mood/frame of mind. I know it's a cliche, but cliches are usually cliches because they're true - foreplay for women starts in the mind, not the body. They have to feel completely relaxed and comfy. She also needs to be in tune with her own responses. She can't tell the guy what works for her unless she knows what works for herself.

And if she's one of the many women who find it difficult to climax during penetration, then find an alternative method of getting her to reach climax. It doesn't have to be during penetration, and she might be able to relax more if she doesn't feel under pressure to climax. And so might your friend.

Edited May 14, 2011 by feral chile

[amy246]

Take a trip to Ann Summers

[jump]

I've got this mate, who's been with his girlfriend for about 7 months, but it's still really difficult to make her climax during love-making. But he's a selfless lover so he keeps going til it happens, so the love-making is going on for like, 40 minutes each time, it's almost torture after about 20 minutes. [My mate says]. Good love-making should never last longer than 15 minutes. [in my mate's opinion]

Has anyone got any tips? [For my mate, he's red-raw]

Thanks [on behalf of my mate]

I'm suspicous of all the times you say mate in this.

Try a biy of mood manipulation 1st, candle light, maybe a (classy) porno and some aphrodisiacs like oysters, strawberrys, truffles etc.

[Lithium05]

Need second date ideas! I've arranged to see this girl I went out with last week on Saturday, and I was going to say a walk round the silent pool (a pond by newlands corner in Surrey) and then go to see Insidious at the cinema (she likes horror films), but the film's not on after tomorrow, and there's nothing else on worth watching (not that Insidious is supposed to be brilliant!) so now I'm stuck for the second part, all I know is a meal isn't an option. Help!

[feral chile]

Need second date ideas! I've arranged to see this girl I went out with last week on Saturday, and I was going to say a walk round the silent pool (a pond by newlands corner in Surrey) and then go to see Insidious at the cinema (she likes horror films), but the film's not on after tomorrow, and there's nothing else on worth watching (not that Insidious is supposed to be brilliant!) so now I'm stuck for the second part, all I know is a meal isn't an option. Help!

got any small theatres nearby which might still have tickets? Any gigs/comedy shows?

Failing that, why not talk to the girl, tell her Insidious isn't on and see if she fancies another film? (supposing you haven't already done so, of course!)