singles thread

[sifi]

thats what im considering right now

[Katster]

why do people do that? why can folk no just make an excuse or even jsut be honest and say they don't want to go!

[rachbon]

Cowards? Selfish? No thoughts for other people and what hassle it is to make arrangements to get there only for it to be for nothing?

[Katster]

another thing i used to hate would be going on a date (or worse, sleeping) with someone and then they just f**king ignore you completely! why not just tell someone you don't wanna see them? fair enough it's not a nice thing to hear but at least you know where you stand.

[rachbon]

Aye. I'm not after a relationship but it's quite funny having men do the whole, it's not you it's me thing, or act like they really want to take your number even though I know they are never going to call me. If they just stood back for one second and stopped being such a nob, they'd realise I felt the exact same way about them as they do about me

Touch wood I've never been stood up, but I have most certainly been sacked off.

Edited June 17, 2008 by _rachelbon

[Katster]

the one time i slept with someone on a first date and never heard from them again, i wasn't bothered about seeing them again anyway. i didn't want a relationship but it's just plain rude to completely ignore someone! i would never do that to someone. i've went on dates with folk before who wanted to see me again and i didn't want to see them, so i just told the truth, although obviously i tried to put it nicely.

[rachbon]

Letting someone down gently

[minute5072]

well, i spoke to her there, said that we shouldnt see each other for a while (chickened out of saying "any more" ) she's adamant that she wants to try and "sort things out" despite not wanting anything serious, so we've agreed to meet up next week to try and do so. although its not going to end well because she's not going/ willing to give at all, so im going to either have to completely cut things off with her, or continue plodding along knowing that she doesnt feel the same as i do and isnt willing to take a chance

joy

[rachbon]

well, i spoke to her there, said that we shouldnt see each other for a while (chickened out of saying "any more" ) she's adamant that she wants to try and "sort things out" despite not wanting anything serious, so we've agreed to meet up next week to try and do so. although its not going to end well because she's not going/ willing to give at all, so im going to either have to completely cut things off with her, or continue plodding along knowing that she doesnt feel the same as i do and isnt willing to take a chance

joy

[minute5072]

if you do that, you'll only feel worse. you'll feel shit either way but if she's not willing to give it a try then you'll save yourself a lot of heartache further down the line by ending it now.

[greenfairy43]

well, i spoke to her there, said that we shouldnt see each other for a while (chickened out of saying "any more" ) she's adamant that she wants to try and "sort things out" despite not wanting anything serious, so we've agreed to meet up next week to try and do so. although its not going to end well because she's not going/ willing to give at all, so im going to either have to completely cut things off with her, or continue plodding along knowing that she doesnt feel the same as i do and isnt willing to take a chance

joy

[minute5072]

When you meet the right person, you'll know.

[Sooperstar]

This thread has turned so girly!

[bunique]

This thread has turned so girly!

Edited June 17, 2008 by bunique

[greenfairy43]

the disappointing thing is, i thought I had

[Millsy2008]

This thread has turned so girly!

[ralph250]

thats becuz girls know everything boys know nothing.....fact!

[Sooperstar]

thats becuz girls know everything boys know nothing.....fact!

[greenfairy43]

...What... is the air-speed velocity of an unladen swallow?

[Millsy2008]

Oh, how wrong one person can be!

[minute5072]

Oh

[Lithium05]

anyway, i'm gonna go watch the football and get really really drunk

Edited June 17, 2008 by Lithium05

[Sooperstar]

and girls are never wrong either....fact!

[minute5072]

Wooo!

Way to restore some manlyness to the thread!

[Millsy2008]

One of my mates is like you, thinks if he puts 'Fact' at the end of a sentence it means it can't be wrong!

He's wrong all the time too!