Never had this problem, me and my mates have always totally accepted that if we want to see something different, away we go and see you later. We've even watched the same bands from different parts of the field because one or more wanted to go down the front but others couldn't be arsed.
I've seen both Shires and Ward Thomas recently as the Mrs is a fan.
Both very good at what they do but very saccharin, nice pop country. I wouldn't bother again.