singles thread

[minute5072]

I once pulled a girl called Games Room, What you trying to say?

[minute5072]

[superdry]

[Radar]

Single life not so fun?

[minute5072]

Single life not so fun?

[Radar]

just had to cut off all ties with my ex who i'm still crazy about. I'm sure in the long term it'll be a good thing but i feel like utter shit right now

[Katster]

Who says single life isn't fun? I'm happy!

[superdry]

just had to cut off all ties with my ex who i'm still crazy about. I'm sure in the long term it'll be a good thing but i feel like utter shit right now

[Goblinz]

Well my love life is getting complicated... Can't really go in to too much details here. I think persueing things with Liverpool lass is a bad idea as she doesn't like my idea of partying. She seemed cool with things at download but when I went to see here I had 2 cigarettes all weekend and that was when she nipped out to Church. I spent 4 hours in a rock club rattling with no cigarette and no drinking (well, I had a couple, she had one).

I thought i'd do the right thing and try not to get too close to her. She emailed me to suggest that we go out in Sheffield with my friends next time so I once again decided to do the right thing and explain that it's prolly a bad idea because of what me and my friends get up to. She messaged back saying that it doesn't bother her and that we should still get together in Sheff for a weekend out. Thing is, I know she won't appreciate what my friends get up to and will prolly be a little bit shocked (Strict Christian and a Doctor).

So what do I do? I quite like the girl, I know that her going to Sheffield would be a bad idea so have told her that she's be uncomfortable and what my friends would be like but she says there's no problem. I can either ignore her, cut ties and prolly end up upsetting here or invite her out in Sheffield and prolly end up upsetting her.... Not really an easy way out... She is lovely tho.

The fact that getting commited with a woman is probably the last thing I wasnt or need at the moment isn't helping either.

Edited October 9, 2008 by Goblinz

[Katster]

Well my love life is getting complicated... Can't really go in to too much details here. I think persueing things with Liverpool lass is a bad idea as she doesn't like my idea of partying. She seemed cool with things at download but when I went to see here I had 2 cigarettes all weekend and that was when she nipped out to Church. I spent 4 hours in a rock club rattling with no cigarette and no drinking (well, I had a couple, she had one).

I thought i'd do the right thing and try not to get too close to her. She emailed me to suggest that we go out in Sheffield with my friends next time so I once again decided to do the right thing and explain that it's prolly a bad idea because of what me and my friends get up to. She messaged back saying that it doesn't bother her and that we should still get together in Sheff for a weekend out. Thing is, I know she won't appreciate what my friends get up to and will prolly be a little bit shocked (Strict Christian and a Doctor).

So what do I do? I quite like the girl, I know that her going to Sheffield would be a bad idea so have told her that she's be uncomfortable and what my friends would be like but she says there's no problem. I can either ignore her, cut ties and prolly end up upsetting here or invite her out in Sheffield and prolly end up upsetting her.... Not really an easy way out... She is lovely tho.

The fact that getting commited with a woman is probably the last thing I wasnt or need at the moment isn't helping either.

[minute5072]

Aww.

Booze is my prescription, and mates. These two things will heal the pain. And random girls, they have their place too.

Chin up dude

[RABun]

got a family do on friday (which will be murder my mum constantly asking "whats wrong" etc ) and then a random flat party on saturday which will hopefully have booze, mates and random girls aplenty.

Will see how things go

[-pogo-]

Well my love life is getting complicated... Can't really go in to too much details here. I think persueing things with Liverpool lass is a bad idea as she doesn't like my idea of partying. She seemed cool with things at download but when I went to see here I had 2 cigarettes all weekend and that was when she nipped out to Church. I spent 4 hours in a rock club rattling with no cigarette and no drinking (well, I had a couple, she had one).

I thought i'd do the right thing and try not to get too close to her. She emailed me to suggest that we go out in Sheffield with my friends next time so I once again decided to do the right thing and explain that it's prolly a bad idea because of what me and my friends get up to. She messaged back saying that it doesn't bother her and that we should still get together in Sheff for a weekend out. Thing is, I know she won't appreciate what my friends get up to and will prolly be a little bit shocked (Strict Christian and a Doctor).

So what do I do? I quite like the girl, I know that her going to Sheffield would be a bad idea so have told her that she's be uncomfortable and what my friends would be like but she says there's no problem. I can either ignore her, cut ties and prolly end up upsetting here or invite her out in Sheffield and prolly end up upsetting her.... Not really an easy way out... She is lovely tho.

The fact that getting commited with a woman is probably the last thing I wasnt or need at the moment isn't helping either.

[sadwitch]

I wouldn't personally get involved with anyone religous, just cause I am realy athiest and although I have fridends who are very religous, I'm not dating them so they don't care what I do.

In my opinion, let her go to Sheffield. Act as you normally would. If she's still wanting to hang about then thats that. She doesnt mind. If she doesnt then yu have your answer and dont have to do the "ignoring her" thing. Either that or you can just tell her what your like and couldnt change that for a religion, again if shes cool with that then fine, if not then there ya go.

[Glitter+Vodka]

goblinz you shouldnt have to change for somebody,or hide ur lifestyle from her, if she likes u enough she will accept you for what you are.

[minute5072]

Well the best way to get over someone is to get on top of someone else! Just don't get attached to anyone, sleep around (safely), have fun and eventually you'll be over her and be able to move on. You'll eventually either meet someone else that you're crazy about or be comfortable with being single and not want anyone else.

[Goblinz]

If you are already sneaking off for a couple of cigarettes when she nips off to church, what will you be hiding from her in months to come?

[Katster]

I told her I was going to nip out for a cig while she was away, no sneaking about it. It was the only chance I got because other times I'd tried I got her doctors opinion. There's nothing to hide, I messaged her to let her know what i get up to in Sheffield and if I do end up inviting her along i'll prolly spell it out a bit more... I don't do sneaking about/dis-honesty.

[Goblinz]

Sorry, my misunderstanding.

If she says she's cool with what you do, and you continue to do what you want, then it's her problem if ultimately she actually isn't all that cool with it.

Take her to Sheffield.

[rabid]

Your prolly right, I don't like upsetting people though.

Worst case scenario I can book a B&B so she's not around my mates place when he's got loads of people coming and going.

[Katster]

Your prolly right, I don't like upsetting people though.

Worst case scenario I can book a B&B so she's not around my mates place when he's got loads of people coming and going.

[Goblinz]

Just slip something in her drink when she's not looking. She'll have a blast and renounce God.

[Radar]

Just don't get attached to anyone, sleep around (safely), have fun and...

[sadwitch]

I've never been comfortable with this.

So I shall ask, random internet lovelies, if I may - is something wrong with me?

Any psychologists in the building?! ???

[Goblinz]

I'm sort of with you though I don't think there's anything wrong with sleeping around if you want to. I don't know why getting attached to someone else would be a bad thing.