singles thread

[saratink]

I'm feeling lonely i think i need a date

[ampersand]

I'm feeling lonely i think i need a date

[saratink]

thought you had one with mcgogues?

[ampersand]

Noooooooo

I want a date naaaawww!

[saratink]

brighteyes?

[brighteyes]

brighteyes?

[ampersand]

I'm serious!!

[brighteyes]

me too. he'll put out on the first date. guaranteed!

[ampersand]

Won't every bloke?

[brighteyes]

near enough yeah. but you're a dead cert!

[saratink]

nah, i look nothing like her!!

[lolbeck]

So did you do any youngsters last night?

[spwan-of-the-devil]

near enough yeah. but you're a dead cert!

Edited October 18, 2010 by spwan-of-the-devil

[greenfairy43]

Well I think I'm going to leave the old bastard. I've had enough.

Just need to find somewhere to live.

[RABun]

I thought you did leave him a while ago? But since then you've posted things that mad it clear you're not happy. So, do it. Leave him & start anew. Don't leave it even longer.

I speak from experience. The inevitable was put off for far, far too long. Once the move was made, the weight was lifted & my life just took off. Good luck, you won't regret it.

[ronaldo]

A while ago he said that, he was thinking about us splitting up which put me in a bit of a spin, then a day later he was all sweetness and light again. So i left things for a while. I started going to couples therapy, on my own cus he didnt want to spend the money on going and thinks its all bollocks. Then this week i saw an email he'd sent to his mate saying that he could see me dragging out the therapy for over a year and wasnt going to hang around to see the outcome. I've been reluctant to finish things because we have been together for 10 years apart from a short break a few years ago, and i've put so much into it.

However i've come to the realisation that i'm fighting so hard to save a relationship that i get nothing out of. He has very little respect for me, and no committment, as every time we have a spat he says why dont we just split then.

The last straw was last week when i put up little post-its to remind him to be nicer. He was there when i did it because he always forgets what he's promised. So i thought a gentle reminder might improve things. The day after that i got a little note from him saying you promised me loads of sex in Florence, i've booked the tickets. I got really emotional as i felt he had made the grand gesture to show that he was committed etc. Then he says nah i was just f**king with you.

The more i stay the more my self esteem disappears.

So yeah i think i am leaving its just a question of when and how at the moment. As yet again i walk out a relationship with nothing to show for it. All our possessions have been bought by him so i take my clothes and books and thats about it.

I'm looking to rent a room in london.

[spwan-of-the-devil]

I think if its got to the stage you need to leave post-it notes to your boyfriend to be nice to you then its definetely time to be looking for a room in London!

[RABun]

The hardest thing is admitting I've wasted 2 years by going back to him in the first place. Lol

[rexclark]

The hardest thing is admitting I've wasted 2 years by going back to him in the first place. Lol

Edited October 18, 2010 by rexclark

[greenfairy43]

I think if its got to the stage you need to leave post-it notes to your boyfriend to be nice to you then its definetely time to be looking for a room in London!

[RABun]

Thanks for your advice and support everyone.

I'm off to spend a week at my brothers house to help with the kids while my sister in law is in america, so i'll have time to work out what i need to do next.

I can't leave until payday anyway so getting away for a few days is a good idea i think.

x

[greenfairy43]

Thanks for your advice and support everyone.

I'm off to spend a week at my brothers house to help with the kids while my sister in law is in america, so i'll have time to work out what i need to do next.

I can't leave until payday anyway so getting away for a few days is a good idea i think.

x

[brighteyes]

Most cerrrrtainly not. I spent the entire night totally sober, waiting for my housemate to say he was ready to drive us home. And then he decided he wanted to stay the night. So me and the housemate I got frisky with a while ago decided to get a taxi home...and then we found it'd be £50. So we both slept on the sofa bed. And he snuggled right up to me. Most likely to keep warm because it was freezing, but regardless, I'm not too keen on his mixed messages :/

[RABun]

Is there anywhere at all you can stay between your week at your brother's & payday? You've decided to go. Your mind is made up. If you can do it now, so much the better. It's all too easy to just drift back to your old ways.

Be strong, you deserve it.

[godmutha]

Nah. I think it will be fine. Anywy I need time to sort out my stuff. I can go and stay at my mums if things are that bad though.