Bullying

[eFestivals]

In case it's passed you by tony, her reading back would be her looking at the examples.

But I'm pleased for you, that you've found something that you think is compatible. It obviously makes you happy.

[feral chile]

If tis was a woman saying to a man

'you've been out of order today, you know what you've done'.

It's a nice guilt trip, but not particularly constructive if what he thinks he's done isn't what you want him to correct. Or if the argument just goes round and round with no real content and no progression.

[eFestivals]

'you've been out of order today, you know what you've done'.

But that's not what I did, was it?

I said go and read your own words, to see what you've written.

I haven't given you a puzzle, I've pointed you at the evidence.

If you don't wish to consider the evidence that's fair enough, but don't then invent the evidence.

If you don't wish to consider the evidence that's fair enough, but don't then try and lay the fault of your own inaction back on me.

[feral chile]

But that's not what I did, was it?

I said go and read your own words, to see what you've written.

I haven't given you a puzzle, I've pointed you at the evidence.

If you don't wish to consider the evidence that's fair enough, but don't then invent the evidence.

If you don't wish to consider the evidence that's fair enough, but don't then try and lay the fault of your own inaction back on me.

ok cool you go reread your own words then, ~I'm satisfied that I've not done anything amiss.

[feral chile]

Taken from the other thread,

Neil:

The bullying gang you've tried to raise by flirting.

That has seriously cheered me up, thank you so much, I really need that right now.

That's made my day

Edited February 9, 2015 by feral chile

[feral chile]

Have I been a bad girl Neil?

Have I been really, really bad?

Will I get punished?

(Am I flirting again? Bad girl Feral!)

Edited February 9, 2015 by feral chile

[feral chile]

But that's not what I did, was it?

I said go and read your own words, to see what you've written.

I haven't given you a puzzle, I've pointed you at the evidence.

If you don't wish to consider the evidence that's fair enough, but don't then invent the evidence.

If you don't wish to consider the evidence that's fair enough, but don't then try and lay the fault of your own inaction back on me.

Well I was hoping you'd narrow it down a bit

Edited February 9, 2015 by feral chile

[eFestivals]

ok cool you go reread your own words then, ~I'm satisfied that I've not done anything amiss.

you're so satisfied that you've done nothing amiss, you gave me an apology ....?

FFS.

You do wrong. You apologise. Then you and the guy you've blow kisses at round up on me, where you claim to have done nothing wrong.

I draw your attention to the title of this thread, one you yourself created.

[eFestivals]

keep being a moron tony, nothing else will suit you.

[feral chile]

Oh, I thought you meant something else I'd done that I hadn't already apologised twice for, and that you'd accepted my apology for.

[feral chile]

Ah. I think there's been a genuine misunderstanding here. When I started this thread, I was referring to what happened to bunique and me, and the girls in the article tony linked to - not our spat.

I think at one point I actually referred to it as bullying. I've always thought of it as a form of bullying, rape is to do with dominance rather than sex.

So, rather than thinking of it in terms of men dominating women, I tend to think of it as a particular person using whatever's to hand to dominate another.

Now, that could be the use of sex as a weapon, but, to me, a woman's sexuality can be used to beat her over the head with by anyone, both men and women.

You can pressure her into being pure and respectable, you can pressure her into being available.

You can then subsume all of it under patriarchy. But the main issue, for me, is that one person is trying to screw with someone else's rights to their own body.

And it's nobody else's business what someone does with their own body, as long as they're not hurting someone.

[feral chile]

oh, actually, I've already gone through this on the first page of this thread. So you already know what made me think of this thread.

[feral chile]

keep being a moron tony, nothing else will suit you.

Tch! name calling.

Moron is Welsh for carrot, by the way.

Is 'tony' and 'moron' also an oxymoron?

[feral chile]

But that's not what I did, was it?

I said go and read your own words, to see what you've written.

I haven't given you a puzzle, I've pointed you at the evidence.

If you don't wish to consider the evidence that's fair enough, but don't then invent the evidence.

If you don't wish to consider the evidence that's fair enough, but don't then try and lay the fault of your own inaction back on me.

I did read through the first day (Friday) that you reckoned was the day that I should retract, and all I could see in there was me saying I wasn't bothered by Page 3, and men could be seen to be demeaned by it as much as women. I don't see anything wrong with that.

[gary1979666]

I did read through the first day (Friday) that you reckoned was the day that I should retract, and all I could see in there was me saying I wasn't bothered by Page 3, and men could be seen to be demeaned by it as much as women. I don't see anything wrong with that.

How could you!