singles thread

[Katster]

tut tut, thats where you say

"yeh too many young uns in here, we should get out of here....wanna get naked and hug?"

[minute5072]

You don't seriously think girls fall for that hugging shit do you?

[-pogo-]

The last guy who told me he just wanted to 'hug' me still isn't speaking to me after I blew him out.

Edited August 18, 2008 by -pogo-

[Radar]

The last guy who told me he just wanted to 'hug' me still isn't speaking to me after I blew him out. You don't seriously think girls fall for that hugging shit do you? If you want to get down and dirty with them, tell it to them straight I say!

[Katster]

I pure read that wrong there.

[Goblinz]

The last guy who told me he just wanted to 'hug' me still isn't speaking to me after I blew him out. You don't seriously think girls fall for that hugging shit do you? If you want to get down and dirty with them, tell it to them straight I say!

[Katster]

What's wrong with wanting a hug and a snuggle?... doesn't have to lead to anything. Maybe girls are too suspicious.

[Goblinz]

There's nothing at all wrong with it. But when a bloke announces it, as something he just wants to do, it's quite clear he's got other things on his mind.

[Radar]

When a boke tells me he wants to take me to bed just to cuddle, I'm sorry but I just aint buying it. If he simply wanted to cuddle, he'd just cuddle, there'd be no need even to mention it!

[Katster]

Depends how well you know them, surely.

[-pogo-]

Well yes, obviously, but in the case mentioned above....it clearly meant the bloke would be after something other than just a cuddle, no?

[Katster]

I pulled at Download with a hug, but it was the other way around cause the girl offered a hug. It was one of those free hugs malarky. I used to hate them before that.

[Goblinz]

Well yes, obviously, but in the case mentioned above....it clearly meant the bloke would be after something other than just a cuddle, no?

[-pogo-]

Hugs are great, there's no doubt about that.

There was a bloke at Glastonbury one year handing out free hugs.....only problem was, after hugging me, he refused to hug my male mates who were with me, claiming he wasn't gay. He must have been using it as a way to pull, or cop a feel, or something

[Katster]

Didn't realise you were talking about going to bed for a cuddle, which is a lot different to sitting on the couch and having a snuggle infront of the TV!

[Goblinz]

'Kin ell. I cuddle my cats on the couch and have snuggles infront of the TV. Of course it's not always sexual.

I was talking about the bloke/scenario in question. I always am just talking about what is mentioned in a post or comment....if I was talking about a different time, I'd say so. I'd have thought that was fairly obvious though? You can't lump all hugs/snuggles/attempts to get girls into bed under false pretences all together can you

[Katster]

You said the last guy, didn't realise you were on about the same guy who tried it on however many months ago it was. I'd completely forgotten about that post as it wasn't pivotal to my life... I'll put on my mind-reader hat and make sure I read through all your posts for the last 6 months before responding next time.

[Kowalski]

haha ive never heard that rule before. Spose it all depends on the guy though.

When I was 21 and I worked in Malia i was with this guy who was over on holiday and he lied to me about his age, and after he went home he text me and told me he'd just turned 16, it felt a bit wrong that like a week before he wasnt even legal He looked a lot older tho, he told me he was 19.

[Radar]

Yes, everyone knows that one hug with the same sex makes you gay! It's so funny when people think like that with absolutely no logic at all!!

[bunique]

You mean previous offers of "snuggles" on here weren't innocent? I'm shocked and appalled!

[Goblinz]

Never mind Kat, we just thought you were talking generally when you said "if a bloke says he only wants cuddles he's a liar" or similar...

[Katster]

*Starts to doubt own sexuality!*

Never mind Kat, we just thought you were talking generally when you said "if a bloke says he only wants cuddles he's a liar" or similar...

Can I have a cuddle btw?

[Radar]

I can't talk for all men or all scenarios. But yes, of course ya can

[Katster]

That's what I thought you (Kat) meant, glad i'm not the only one who thought so.

You seem wound up Kat, is everything OK?

[Radar]

In that scenario I'm willing to bet 9.9 times out of 10, the bloke would be lying. Do you guys agree with me on that or what? You must do?!?! And if you agree, which you surely must, then hopefully you'll understand why I may be slightly wound up. As wound up as I am able to get on here, that is!