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Hi everyone

Im feeling really bad today.

I ended up sleeping with someone last night and again things werent (how do I put this without embarrasing myself) "working as they should".

This has happened to me before and im really now worried that it could be something serious.

I did like the girl, but for some reason stuff wanst working.

I now feel like crap as shes now said oh dont worry about it can still hang out etc.

I just keep fking up like this for some reason, and im not sure if its me or what. It could be stress/anxiety, or the fact that I was fooling myself that I was attracted to her therefore couldnt have intercourse I honeslty dont know

Im worried that I could have this problem all the time.

PS...apologies if ive digressed and turned this into a dear bealster page or something ha ha!

:angry: :O

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Dunno if I fancy bleaching my hair, I've just got it in good condition as I'm trying to grow it really long. Because my hair is so fine (thin I mean, not great smashing super) it breaks very easily so it's a nightmare to grow long. I have been growing my hair for about a year now and it's probably grown about an inch in that time (I get it cut regularly, to get rid of split ends)
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Hi everyone

Im feeling really bad today.

I ended up sleeping with someone last night and again things werent (how do I put this without embarrasing myself) "working as they should".

This has happened to me before and im really now worried that it could be something serious.

I did like the girl, but for some reason stuff wanst working.

I now feel like crap as shes now said oh dont worry about it can still hang out etc.

I just keep fking up like this for some reason, and im not sure if its me or what. It could be stress/anxiety, or the fact that I was fooling myself that I was attracted to her therefore couldnt have intercourse I honeslty dont know

Im worried that I could have this problem all the time.

PS...apologies if ive digressed and turned this into a dear bealster page or something ha ha!

:angry: :O

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Hi everyone

Im feeling really bad today.

I ended up sleeping with someone last night and again things werent (how do I put this without embarrasing myself) "working as they should".

This has happened to me before and im really now worried that it could be something serious.

I did like the girl, but for some reason stuff wanst working.

I now feel like crap as shes now said oh dont worry about it can still hang out etc.

I just keep fking up like this for some reason, and im not sure if its me or what. It could be stress/anxiety, or the fact that I was fooling myself that I was attracted to her therefore couldnt have intercourse I honeslty dont know

Im worried that I could have this problem all the time.

PS...apologies if ive digressed and turned this into a dear bealster page or something ha ha!

:P :angry:

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Hi everyone

Im feeling really bad today.

I ended up sleeping with someone last night and again things werent (how do I put this without embarrasing myself) "working as they should".

This has happened to me before and im really now worried that it could be something serious.

I did like the girl, but for some reason stuff wanst working.

I now feel like crap as shes now said oh dont worry about it can still hang out etc.

I just keep fking up like this for some reason, and im not sure if its me or what. It could be stress/anxiety, or the fact that I was fooling myself that I was attracted to her therefore couldnt have intercourse I honeslty dont know

Im worried that I could have this problem all the time.

PS...apologies if ive digressed and turned this into a dear bealster page or something ha ha!

:P :angry:

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I'd go to the doctors and dicuss this with them, there might be something they can suggest once you tell them all the details (well, not all those details, but details about what you were feeling/thinking and stuff). It would appear you're unsure whether you were actually attracted to her though, and although for most men this wouldn't be a problem and they'd just get on with it anyway.....perhaps you were feeling guilty about doing it when you didn't actually have any genuine strong feelings for the girl?

I'm a bit of a man when it comes to sex, friends ask me how I can sleep with people I'm not in a relationship with but for me I don't actually have to care about a man I sleep with. I do have to find him attractive though, like Cultseeker I don't want to have sex with someone who mings :angry:

I don't think you should be worried about it being a problem you will have all the time :O

The scary thing was I wasnt thinking anything at all. Other than it was actually hurting a little.

My mind was an utter blank for some reason and I cant think why.

This is going to sound proper wierd but when im on my own its completely different, if im with someone for some reason it becomes painful.

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If its not something you have a problem with when on your own, then chances are it psychological, maybe nerves.
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The scary thing was I wasnt thinking anything at all. Other than it was actually hurting a little.

My mind was an utter blank for some reason and I cant think why.

This is going to sound proper wierd but when im on my own its completely different, if im with someone for some reason it becomes painful.

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Might be going out to Brighton tonight.... I say that but the likelyhood of it actually happening is pretty slim. My mate got the idea when he was off his face last night (I was driving so was sobre) and I said I was up for it.... might even offer to drive again although I've never been out in Brighton before, how is it sober?!

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Might be going out to Brighton tonight.... I say that but the likelyhood of it actually happening is pretty slim. My mate got the idea when he was off his face last night (I was driving so was sobre) and I said I was up for it.... might even offer to drive again although I've never been out in Brighton before, how is it sober?!
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I'm off out iin Bradford on my own tonight.... Sounds a bit weird, I know. Got sick of mates being crap/skint/working/disorganised a few years ago so I tend to head of to raves on my own if people are being indecisive. I wouldn't go to a normal club on my tod, but raves generally have the festival type friendly atmosphere where you can just sit down and talk to anyone so are always a lot of fun and you meet a lot of people that way.

Should be a good night, the party is in an old printers mill with a room of (hard) Psy-trance, a room for funky/chilled stuff and a dub room upstairs. You can even take our own beer in first, but that causes problems..ie. pockets/back full of beer means you can't dance and then when you drink it all you're too drunk to dance :angry:

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I'm going to a friends house for food and drinks tonight, I haven't seen him for nearly a year, it's his birthday tomorrow.

f**k that going out on the town malarky, I've gone off it, since it's actually rather crap.

Plus my Italiano lessons start again tomorrow (we've been off for 3 weeks for Easter) so I don't want to be tired and rough from a night out on the town...

My friend's wife is from Thailand, she cooks the most amazing food. I shall return her favour with a nice bottle of vino......last time I saw her she asked me what she should do with wine, neck it or sip it, I told her to do with it as she liked so she necked a tumbler glass full and asked me for more!! I think in her I've met my match!

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