A message to Telegram 8833

[Guest]

You are still on line, posting the same thing. I am answering you, please tell me without caps lock and in a reasoned fashion, what you want from us, or the other multiple forums you do this to. You must realise that your actions do not exactly help people want to interact with you.

Please tell me what we can do to help.

[Woffy]

Join a club, speed dating, socialising...?

[Woffy]

What have you tried so far?

Go solo to a festival this summer! Plenty of advice here!

[Woffy]

Interacting on any level would be a start, don't you think?

Do so here! It's effectively a thread dedicated to you!

Edited February 7, 2015 by Woffy

[Yoghurt on a Stick]

how do you meet people in London?

How do you manage not to meet people in London?

Edited February 7, 2015 by Yoghurt on a Stick

[Crazyfool01]

there are people of all ages prepared to try and help

[Guest]

it depends on who you want to meet, what you like to do and what interests you have. I don't live there but generally you need to go to places where similar individuals go, singles meets such as the ones set up by dating sites may be a place to consider. I won't be flippant by suggesting talking to strangers without due cause, London is odd like that, people don't appreciate casual contact in the same way that people in Somerset do.

This forum is populated by people who care about music and through it a large number of enduring friendships have formed, love and marriage in some cases. If you engage with forum members in a reasoned manner without the spam, you can interact with the community. There are individuals who post on here that have spoken of their depression, mental issues and fears in an open way, read by a fairly non-judgemental forum. There are always people who think it is good to be offensive or random from the safety of their sofa, ignore them because criticism from strangers is irrelevant.

If you gave a little more information maybe some of us can help or at least help you take part.

[Yoghurt on a Stick]

it depends on who you want to meet, what you like to do and what interests you have. I don't live there but generally you need to go to places where similar individuals go, singles meets such as the ones set up by dating sites may be a place to consider. I won't be flippant by suggesting talking to strangers without due cause, London is odd like that, people don't appreciate casual contact in the same way that people in Somerset do.

This forum is populated by people who care about music and through it a large number of enduring friendships have formed, love and marriage in some cases. If you engage with forum members in a reasoned manner without the spam, you can interact with the community. There are individuals who post on here that have spoken of their depression, mental issues and fears in an open way, read by a fairly non-judgemental forum. There are always people who think it is good to be offensive or random from the safety of their sofa, ignore them because criticism from strangers is irrelevant.

If you gave a little more information maybe some of us can help or at least help you take part.

I have ran out of up votes. Even though I called the bloke a bell end in a recent post what you say is actually my real perspective too. Thanks for re-aligning me pilton.

[Guest]

As an addition to my comments above, thank you for viewing my profile even though it won't tell you much. I am going offline for a bit, please don't think that I am ignoring you if I don't reply straight away to any reasoned comment or question. I for one would be happy to welcome you to the forum if you wish to take part in the same manner as the rest of us.

By the way, have you ever considered going to Glastonbury? If not, you are not too late for the resale.

[Woffy]

Telegraph8833,

I'm probably gonna be around all day if you want to keep posting on this thread.

Woffy

[russycarps]

I live in London and though it is a big and busy city it can be a lonely place so I can understand fellows anguish.

When I'm on my own and bored I go to the museums. They are free and you see lots of people there on their own. I have started conversions there, and had people start them with me. It's quite easy there as you can talk about the exhibit you are looking at.

Just an idea chum.

[Thearg]

Londondoner here too but in exile,agree with rusty London can be lonely some times,courses are a good way to meet like minded folk also,hobbies etc.

Keep the faith mate.

[Guest]

Telegram, I note that it appears your profile has been shit canned by the mods, probably whilst they were clearing up. Can I suggest that you reappear as an alter ego, start posting in the same manner as everybody else (maybe not the same as some of them...) and we can all pretend that the spam never happened. There are always new users and unless you cough, no one will know who you are unless you chose to tell us.

Join as a member and become part of this wierdness. Just please don't repeat the ranting, we have got the point and are trying to help.

[Yoghurt on a Stick]

You can be lonely in any city, town, countryside. Lonliness is a curse. I spent seven years of it once. I used to go to supermarkets and hang around them just to be next to people. It was a very sad time in my life. I even got to the stage where I was once laughing away out loud to myself at some internal joke in one of the aisles, when I noticed other shoppers moving away from me like I was a wierdo.

I do really feel for people who are lonely and also those with mental health problems. I do find it hard to accept the stance that this persons posts are acceptable though.