singles thread

[Katster]

I get approached a lot and I do a lot of approaching on nights out. I never really pull though (very rarely). I'm simply not into all that. I prefer striking up a friendship with someone gradually and having some sort of connection with them. They can have me for a while but they can't have me forever, I might return I might not.

Some people might be surprised to hear I haven't had very many 'lovers' at all.

[Lithium05]

Well, the second time I saw her out, I walked past her and she shouted "Argh! There's my stalker!!!"

Edited May 12, 2008 by Lithium05

[Goblinz]

In that case you're not doing it right

[HorseboX]

Well, the second time I saw her out, I walked past her and she shouted "Argh! There's my stalker!!!"

[sifi]

I get approached a lot and I do a lot of approaching on nights out. I never really pull though (very rarely). I'm simply not into all that. I prefer striking up a friendship with someone gradually and having some sort of connection with them. They can have me for a while but they can't have me forever, I might return I might not.

Some people might be surprised to hear I haven't had very many 'lovers' at all.

[Angelis]

am i the only one here that doesnt think stalking is a good thing?, when i used to go out all the time it was like, if you like someone go give it a go... very rarely got blown out, most women seem to like confidence

[Lithium05]

most women seem to like confidence

[brighteyes]

In that case you're not doing it right

ETA:

I stand corrected

[HorseboX]

Some stalkers are ginger, knife wielding psychotics not that I'm bitter. Some stalkers are ginger. I'll leave it at that.

[xxclf]

I came back home Friday night proper depressed that I hadn't pulled the girl I was stalking. I'm always depressed when I go out to a club and don't manage to pull!

Absolutely stupid, of course.

[brighteyes]

am i the only one here that doesnt think stalking is a good thing?, when i used to go out all the time it was like, if you like someone go give it a go... very rarely got blown out, most women seem to like confidence

[sifi]

ok.... and where do I get this "con-fi-dence"?

Edited May 12, 2008 by sifimaster

[sadwitch]

I'd like to say

1) brighteyes made me laugh

2) xxclf made me shudder

3) if a member of my family told someone they couldn't go out with me coz it would annoy them and I found out about it, everyone involved would get such a kicking.

4) Re: asking fathers to marry their daughters. My parents would approve of it. I would issue another kicking all round.

[sadwitch]

Inner strength. Knowing you are essentially a good person and believing as such you will get what you deserve. Even just chatting to strangers without a view to getting them into bed. A few bits of eye contact with someone you don't know, and a lil smile or a wink.

[brighteyes]

Im the same. I hate it if all my mates pull and I don't. you end up feeling like the unwanted one haha. I've pulled some shockers though..

[brighteyes]

don't listen to him. don't wink. trust me. Do not wink.

[xxclf]

I'd like to say

1) brighteyes made me laugh

2) xxclf made me shudder

[Angelis]

just think of dr pepper next time u think u can pull, "whats the worst that can happen?" you get blown out turned down, move on... saves alot of wasted time

[sifi]

don't listen to him. don't wink. trust me. Do not wink.

[sadwitch]

"whats the worst that can happen?"

[sadwitch]

Depends if the person you are looking at is a wink recipient. If they look a bit embarrassed, but in a cheeky demure way, then the wink works.

Or it used to. Apparently twelve thousand years of evolved mating habits have been superceded by coloured stickers.

[HorseboX]

don't wink! u should never trust a winker, but don't stare either cos that's creepy too. occassional blinking can set the right mood. you could even try blinking in morse code to send subliminal messages that your victim will unconciously read and be influenced by, never works with me tho

[Lithium05]

Do you struggle to make friends some times?

[sifi]

What if they look f**king horrified and leave the pub.

Edited May 12, 2008 by sifimaster

[Angelis]

lol didnt really think that through... ignore the dr pepper thing then, i'll not have any of that on my head