singles thread

[sifi]

Most girls, even the nice ones.. love a chap to take control, that's all I'm saying!

[RABun]

That's not my experience. Although turning up at the next date with maybe a token of affection might be a catalyst, I'd suggest.

[sifi]

I like men to take control and so do most of my girl friends. don't take anything to the date unless its small enough to fit in a handbag flowers or booze are lovely but a nightmare to carry round all night, and buying earrings or something is a bit over the top.

Just take her out for a few drinks and then suggest getting something to eat, and even if she offers to go halves pay for everything!

Edited May 12, 2008 by sifimaster

[Peevis]

"Here's some flowers for you. Their radiance matches the beauty that I see before me. And as much as it pains me to take their radiance away, I shall ask the host of this fine establishment to put them in the sink in the kitchen for the remainder of the evening ...."

[RABun]

"Here's some flowers for you. Their radiance matches the beauty that I see before me. And as much as it pains me to take their radiance away, I shall ask our host of this fine establishment to put them in the sink in the kitchen for the remainder of the evening ...."

[sifi]

Then, after she voms on your shoes you cn take my advice and say "clean those, Bitch!"

[Peevis]

No need to apologise Seef.

Just that most girls I know prefer to go out with men, rather than a wet fish!

[sifi]

Now lovely as that is... it would make me want to run away...far too full on.

[sifi]

No need to apologise Seef.

Just that most girls I know prefer to go out with men, rather than a wet fish!

Edited May 12, 2008 by sifimaster

[RABun]

I didn't apologise for Peev.

I don't see how how buying a small gift for your date if you are serious makes someone a wet fish. Next you'll be telling me that you don't pull wouldn't open the flamin' door as you walk in, you'd expect her to do that!

[sifi]

Right i'm off to uni now...but look forward to reading this discussion later. I think it'll be good to see the different points of view from men on dating.

[Katster]

Gather it's been raining in manchester, hopefully the weather will be back to hot for the weekend rather than overcast

[Katster]

Re dating:

If a girl really likes a guy she loves it when he spoils/treats her.

If a girl isn't that into a guy she finds it annoying when he spoils/treats her.

Nobody likes a wet lettuce in any situation though. Get some balls and a backbone and all is good in the world.

I think I'm still pissed.

[Lithium05]

I think it'll be good to see the different points of view from men on dating.

Edited May 12, 2008 by Lithium05

[sifi]

If a girl really likes a guy she loves it when he spoils/treats her.

If a girl isn't that into a guy she finds it annoying when he spoils/treats her.

[Goblinz]

Re dating:

If a girl really likes a guy she loves it when he spoils/treats her.

If a girl isn't that into a guy she finds it annoying when he spoils/treats her.

[Katster]

Totally agree with this. But why would anyone go on a date with a guy she isn't into anyhow? Waste of time. And certainly in Remote's case I think she's tuning him, so I don't see anything wrong with it at all. If not their next meeting, the one after that.

[Peevis]

Which is why all men should be mind readers and know exactly how much a girl is into him, amongst other things, before doing anything.

If she likes you and you do something for her then you're being sweet/charming, if she doesn't like you then your just being sexist!

Surely if a girl isn't really into a guy then she shouldn't go out on a date with him anyway.

[HorseboX]

Right i'm off to uni now...but look forward to reading this discussion later. I think it'll be good to see the different points of view from men on dating.

[sifi]

I found myself thinking of an incident last summer, I was talking to a very nice attractive girl that I worked with at the time, and the subject moved on to films, and it transpired that neither of us had seen the Bourne film that was out at the time. Going by the way the conversation went I now realise that she was trying to get me to ask her out to go and see the film, but I was completely oblivious.

Edited May 12, 2008 by sifimaster

[greeneyes1980]

if any of my mates got with one of my sisters i'd hit the f**king roof.

[sifi]

Ummm, how do you find out if you're into someone without dating them? Unless you already know them well of course.

[Peevis]

if any of my mates got with one of my sisters i'd hit the f**king roof.

[sifi]

Personally, I was grateful, and felt sorry for the chap who took her on!

[sifi]

if any of my mates got with one of my sisters i'd hit the f**king roof.

Edited May 12, 2008 by sifimaster