singles thread

[Cardboard Box City]

but it's just finding the words...

[Goblinz]

So you're upset the jehovah won't have sex and upset the other one wants to?

[Katster]

What's the matter hun?

And what is the question? What should you learn?

[worm]

I'm fine. I just thought I'd met someone I really liked and who really liked me. I was wrong. Oh well!

Heh you remind me of me a couple of years ago. I was seeing 5 different blokes and when talking about them to friends I'd refer to them 'being in the lead' or 'dropping down a place'. Good luck with the pair of them....if you're anything like me though, you'll end up wishing you could have a mixture of them both. And that aint ever going to happen unfortunately

[Katster]

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[nightcrawler13]

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[-pogo-]

Listen to the rythm of the falling rain, find out what a funny fool I've been.

[Radar]

I was seeing 5 different blokes and when talking about them to friends I'd refer to them 'being in the lead' or 'dropping down a place'.

[Katster]

In what sense, what possible sense, is this okay?! ???

Ah well it's your life. Same to Iloveslushes.

[Radar]

I didn't really want to remark about it being such an awful thing to do though, since it's also up to Slushes if she chooses to be that way. For me though it was something I thankfully grew out of. I'm personally ashamed I ever thought like that....and I also realise it's probably the reason I wasn't having much luck back then.

[worm]

Sorry but it's the sort of thing that causes an uncontrollable pulsing in my temples, and an uncertainty whether to bellow or weep!

[Radar]

The real world seemingly aint your thing bro.

Do you find acceptance of things that you do not idealise a hard thing to do?

[Goblinz]

I'm not liking the other one that much (who was at the top of the list at one point) seeing as he is too obvious about wanting sex (ie talking to my boobs, arranging to have "some fun" after not knowing him more than a month and feeling he is about a third of the size of the Jehovah down below).

[Katster]

Sorry but it's the sort of thing that causes an uncontrollable pulsing in my temples, and an uncertainty whether to bellow or weep!

Oh course it's up to Slushes - but I can happily say I've never treated any women that way, I guess plenty of guys have though.

Funny though how often people say they want to be treated with respect...

[ /grumpy old man]

[RABun]

Can I just say, for the record, I wasn't sleeping with any of the guys. Just dating them and getting myself all confused in the process. They all knew I was a single girl and none of them thought they were my one and only (I certainly never led them to believe that anyway!).

[worm]

Not so much a "real world" issue - I realise that your experience of life may have been a bitter streak of disappointment but fortunately most of the bad shit doesn't actually happen to me - it still hurts to think of it and hear about instances of it however. I have compassion, and empathy, more than most.

[Radar]

It's not a bitter streak of dissapointment at all. I just find it easy to accept that people are different.

It was a question, not an analysis.

[Katster]

I'm glad. Look - I never suggest people can't do whatever the hell they like, but I'm entitled to my opinion. I'd be pissed off if I thought some woman I'd recently met was considering me along with 5 others - and that's just me, but I'm sure I'm not the only person to think that way. I hope not anyway, as that would suggest I was wrong......!!!

[worm]

I'd be pissed off if I thought some woman I'd recently met was considering me along with 5 others - and that's just me, but I'm sure I'm not the only person to think that way.

Edited September 30, 2008 by worm

[sadwitch]

You complain about him talking at your boobs and then are comparing him partially based on the size of his manhood.

I bet i'd be in trouble on here if I had a "running order" of women based on breast size.

[Radar]

But it isn't about you, it's about Katster.

It would come as no surprise to me whatever a woman was like. If they behave in a manner I don't like then all that is within my power to do is to leave or stay. What they do is none of my concern. Dissapointment is part of the process of mating/coupling. Especially for them in my case.

[worm]

Ah, no expectations, a very nice thing to say, but nonetheless it is surely only human to find oneself thinking some things, or hoping, or whatever.

[Goblinz]

If it was me, I'd only arrange to meet one of those people. Then if it wasn't going well, I'd try another of those people. I wouldn't try them all at once! Does that make any difference, you might ask - I don't know, but I'd feel I wasn't leading anyone up the garden path my way. I don't mean to sound so judgmental though, should have said nowt. The way you put it does sound extremely casual, innocent and uncomplicated in fairness.

[Radar]

Each to their own.

But to damn even the thought of a women having five guys at her disposal is pretty indicative of patriarchy, no?

It's not about need, it's about choice.

[worm]

Not at all. It's indicative of equality. I wouldn't expect a man to have five women "at his disposal" either.