girly question

[mandypants]

ofcourse, just from knowing girls who have been called sluts and the like in the past and also visiting private orgy clubs and seeing the people who go there i have witnessed their naked souls so to speak.

[travelling mr pastry]

Well IF she's insecure, perhaps this is the something she should be doing - exploring other people's attitudes to see if she should feel bad about it. It's quite nice to be able to do that with anonimity on a message board if you ask me.

[llcoolphil]

I am a Woman and I Really Enjoy Sex! Sometimes even with somebody I'm not married to

[strudders]

i said and you quoted me saying that i beleived both men and women who are promiscuous are often using it to fill a hole (no pun intended) in their lives. you then went on to imply i was trying to limit female sexuality because i am insecure about it. how does that work? get of your idealistic soapbox and face the facts, people who put it about often use it as a crutch.

[llcoolphil]

people like her

[Randy Pan]

have i either directly or implicitly called you dickhead or the like?

[scaryclaireyfairy]

have i just stepped into a time warp back to the 50's?!

sex is fun.

women enjoy it too.

if it's safe and consensual there's absolutely nothing to comment on.

some people seem to be reading a lot into the OP's post that isn't there. she does not have to have a low self-esteem or insecurity to be shagging at a festival, we don't know if it was 3 separate people, if they were randoms, or indeed if they were male. newsflash - we don't have to. it's only sex. it's up to the people engaging in it whether it's right, wrong or indifferent. judging someone on that one facet and creating a whole assumption about their character from it is absurd.

[travelling mr pastry]

You've been to a sex club and you still don't believe that women can have no-strings sex for fun? Good grief, do we really have to spell it out?

I am a Woman and I Really Enjoy Sex! Sometimes even with somebody I'm not married to

[travelling mr pastry]

And WTF does that mean?

[Detective McNulty]

All this morality shite is zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

I can confirm that i am extremely good looking, if anyone wants to have sex with me they can PM me and we can swap pictures etc.

Apologies to the admin of the board if the amount of PMs makes the server go slow.

[strudders]

im not saying that women are wrong to enjoy sex, nor men either, just that some of them like the OP seem to want to do it for the wrong reasons. bear in mind i also never said that it was only the women in these sex clubs that were insecure...

[Randy Pan]

there are many other alt.boards for people like her to discuss her feelings.

Edited June 7, 2009 by Randy Pan

[llcoolphil]

its fun to try and argue with half the board all at once guys, but if you do feel the need to join in please quote something that isnt so ridiculously obscure i have no idea where it came from

[Detective McNulty]

Still not receieved any PMs. Some people think i look like a young George Best. Hth.

[MrMac]

Still not receieved any PMs. Some people think i look like a young George Best. Hth.

[llcoolphil]

All this morality shite is zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

I can confirm that i am extremely good looking, if anyone wants to have sex with me they can PM me and we can swap pictures etc.

Apologies to the admin of the board if the amount of PMs makes the server go slow.

[travelling mr pastry]

Someone has already pointed out the ignorance of "people like her", so I'll leave that one be (because I still know you're not really judgemental - you can't be - you said so).

The scenario was Glastonbury. The topic was sex with other festival goers. The opinions sought were those of festival goers... struggling to think of a more apt forum myself...

[strudders]

Still not receieved any PMs. Some people think i look like a young George Best. Hth.

[travelling mr pastry]

Ridiculously obscure? It was taken from your previous post

The point being you are in no place to make the judgement 'people like her' (beyond the fact 'people like her' is a meaningless statement anyway) because you know nothing of her other than what you've made up about her personality

[strudders]

ps, arguing the toss over wording of "people like her" is pedantry in the extreme.

[llcoolphil]

ps, arguing the toss over wording of "people like her" is pedantry in the extreme.

[travelling mr pastry]

people like you would say that.......

[llcoolphil]

ah right, ok by people like her i meant people who want to talk about their sex lives on the internet. is that alright?

[travelling mr pastry]

No - using phrases like 'people like her' is ignorance in the extreme.

But go on, enlighten the board - what characterises people like her? How does the characterisation manifest itself? Do 'people like her' have other common traits or are we just talking about sex? What, indeed, are 'people like her'? Who are they?

[strudders]

we'll we are right alot of the time...