@GETOFFAMYLAWN I had a similar issue a few years back. I tried every kind of ear drop on the market and eventually ordered myself this: https://www.amazon.co.uk/AcuLife-Ear-Wax-Removal-Syringe/dp/B000SOJXGA/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=X9F6LXQA7BP8&keywords=ear+syringe&qid=1561222534&s=gateway&sprefix=ear+syrin%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1
I used this to syringe my own ears with warm water as per the instructions. The syringe does not spray water down the ear canal as the holes are designed to flush the water back out your ear, catching the wax en route. TBH I was horrified what came out of my ear! It helps if you use ear drops to soften the wax first.