Young,Dumb and Living off Mum BBC3

[sifi]

You was talking about me crying in the corner... You wish you could ever do that to me

[saratink]

I know i'm replying to whatever was said several pages back but I only came home yesterday

I'm young, i'm not dumb but I am living off mum. Which, i do appreciate.

Believe me, if i could, i would go out and get a job and my own place, but I don't want to be stuck in this same town for the rest of my life earning pennies and spending them on rent and bills with only a little bit of spending money left over to put some petrol in my car to drive to asdas or get excited for a local might as well be kareoke band in the pub.

However, because at the moment, i'm choosing to be at home, in the same bedroom as my 14 year old sister with hardly any spending money so I can go to college and hopefully university, I rekon i will have more financial security in the future than if I left home right now and got a job.

Now, i barely eat meals with the family. We always have sunday lunch together but on other days usually my mum and dad eat together and my nan and brother may eat with them. I always cook my own food. I don't think having dinner together every night is essential for 'family' time. We can have that in the car or in the adverts during corination street, or whilst making a cuppa tea in the kitchen.

[sifi]

Who am I attempting to control ? Other than my children of course... Unless you think parents shouldn't control their children and let them just run wild and free

[oafc0000]

I've not accused Oaf of being anything for months. Maybe you want to learn to discern between individual users on whichever new forum you go to.

[ampersand]

I've not accused Oaf of being anything for months. Maybe you want to learn to discern between individual users on whichever new forum you go to.

[oafc0000]

I said religion, not religious. Not the flock. It's the people who manipulate the flock that get my goat. The idiots who believe any old rubbish that result in homophobia, hatred, things like that are only part of the problem, yes, but the real evil is those at the top.

[sifi]

Probably got more to do with me being aware of your fishing attempts and not engaging with you as much as above...

[sifi]

So why such dislike for me ? So why you the constant questioning of me ? and why the constant accusations ? When I have always said I have no issues with gay people...

Its your constant questioning despite already being given the answers that we are calling fishing...

Wow, your not all that quick are you...

[ampersand]

So why such dislike for me ? So why you the constant questioning of me ? and why the constant accusations ? When I have always said I have no issues with gay people...

Its your constant questioning despite already being given the answers that we are calling fishing...

Wow, your not all that quick are you...

[sifi]

yeah you never mention a belief of christian leaders and assume oaf thinks the exact same.

i'd like to see a muslim come on here and you attack him the same way that you do a christian. you like the easy targets.

[saratink]

If you look carefully oaf has some good views about his own family values and traditions. I don't think he's saying that other peoples values are wrong, it's that it's his values he wants to install in his OWN children.

You shouldn't have a go just because he's religious.

Fair enough, some of his views on young people, work and politics grind on my nerves but he does have some good views on family values.

[sifi]

oafs comments provoke consistently curious responses from quite a few different peopele.....

it couldn't have anything to do with the common denominator, could it?

[oafc0000]

If you look carefully oaf has some good views about his own family values and traditions. I don't think he's saying that other peoples values are wrong, it's that it's his values he wants to install in his OWN children.

You shouldn't have a go just because he's religious.

Fair enough, some of his views on young people, work and politics grind on my nerves but he does have some good views on family values.

Edited August 23, 2010 by oafc0000

[oafc0000]

you shouldn't be trying to control your kids (interfering was an interesting choice of word)

you should be opening their lives up to them

imo

[sifi]

That is all I was trying to say before the attack dogs jumped

[oafc0000]

Na, you were fishing to see if your reactionary stance would result in a response. And then you play the victim card. Your usual agenda, then.

[ampersand]

Na, you were fishing to see if your reactionary stance would result in a response. And then you play the victim card. Your usual agenda, then.

[sifi]

omg you are getting more desperate now...

Edited August 23, 2010 by sifimaster

[oafc0000]

Having been reading your threads and posts for so long now, it's a pattern that emerges time and time again. That's why I don't engage with you very often any more. Rumbled you a long while ago.

Edited August 23, 2010 by oafc0000

[sifi]

if you truely believe that, then why respond?

[oafc0000]

if you truely believe that, then why respond?

[sifi]

Surely for you to have a point here I have previously stated a different view on family values ?

And also for this to be true then you wouldn't of been responding to me over the last couple of weeks ?

[oafc0000]

sifi asks you a couple of questions, and you turn it into a competition where there has to be a winner and/or a loser...?

[ampersand]

As I've already said, I don't tend to much any more. This is the first time in a real long time. I care enough about the boards not to engage. I'd imagine if Oaf did likewise, then you wouldn't have so much of a problem, and nor would the others who have cleared off recently.

[oafc0000]

Believe me, with the amount of shit you've been spewing over the last few weeks, I've held back on 90% of the posts that if anyone else would have made, I would have engaged.