To be fair, in the past year or so, Neil has had some severe health issues which have affected his daily life to the extent that he has pretty much lost his "independence". His physical and mental health have been impacted greatly and so I'm not surprised he's often in a shitty mood. However, I think he needs to recognise that he has a problem rather than blaming everyone else, because otherwise before long he will have scared everyone away.
I seriously think you need to take a step back from the forum and focus on your own health. It doesn't have to be permanent but consider hiring some people to help you out... hell, i'm sure there are some here that would happily do it voluntarily!