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[tommmy]

I booked my Glastonbury ticket last October with a group of friends, all single lads. The plan was to go and sample all the delights the festival has to offer, including fun with the ladies should the opportunity arise, roll forward to the middle of May and I start seeing Amanda. It's going pretty well but we are really still getting to know each other. My dilemma is should I go all out and enjoy myself or keep Percy in my pants? Also, at this stage of a relationship, what does actually constitute cheating? A passionate kiss, sexual contact (that's anything between a kiss and intercourse) or just sexual intercourse? My friends say it isn't really cheating at all at this time because we don't yet know if it's going to get serious.

[Joshuwarr]

If you have a girlfriend then don't cheat on her. Pretty obvious isnt it? Don't treat her like a mug.

[eggyrocks]

LOL, clearly if you are involved with someone, having "sexual contact" with someone else isn't cheating.

Hmmm....

[Dirty_Dave]

LOL!

Any photos of Amanda, and we will tell you if its OK or not....

Remember what happens at Glasto, stays at Glasto......right until some f**ker 'tags' you!

[Conrax]

If i was Amanda i'd feel cheated.

[fowls]

Is it really that hard to go a few days without shagging a stranger?  You're camping anyway, so after a few days sex is not exactly hygienic.  And besides, (unless you're god's gift to women) it's not like girls will throw themselves at you, so it can't be that hard to enjoy Glastonbury without cheating.

Edited by fowls, 03 June 2010 - 12:52 PM.

[Grimmy]

Getting a girlfriend just before Glasto? Schoolboy error son, you just dropped the ball! Of course it's cheating, unless you'd be happy for her to shag around too?

[Topless Skateboarding Nun]

Theres always the "outside your postcode" rule.... wonder if she might use that rule in your absence?

Edited by Topless Skateboarding Nun, 03 June 2010 - 12:53 PM.

[Frames]

I'm Amanda and what have I told you about Internet Forums..

[lahm]

If you're just 'seeing' someone I dont think you're obliged to not copp off with anyone else, and when you're wasted things don't matter anyway. I'd say just to keep your conscience at bay only do it if a bird ends up throwing herself at you.

[robith]

Pics or gtfo

[Happy Chappy]

Of course your mates are going to say it isn't cheating, because they're your mates... duh!

Unless she has given you a weekend pass then, yeah, it's cheating.

[Grimmy]

I'd say just to keep your conscience at bay only do it if a bird ends up throwing herself at you.

Yeah that's definitely the moral high ground.

[Joshuwarr]

By the way, Amanda is coming to Glastonbury with me and we plan to have much sex.

[Felna]

If you have a girlfriend then don't cheat on her. Pretty obvious isnt it? Don't treat her like a mug.

+1

Just don't do it. Cheating is cheating, there is no grey area.

[amfy]

I think if you need to ask this question you should probably end it now.

It just isn't necessary to shag someone at Glastonbury and screw up something that's worth something to you.

This clearly isn't worth enough to you.

As for what's acceptable (kiss - intercourse) - imagine her heading off to Glastonbury with the girls and think about what you might be prepared to put up with? I'd suggest that if you wouldn't mind what she does, this relationship isn't going anywhere.

[Jackmypie]

What would you think if she shagged some guy while you were gone?
Also whats with this 'Postcode' shit... You're still having sex :L

[jeanettekaren]

Lucky Amanda, you sound like a right catch!  

[-pogo-]

It depends if you're actualy going out or not. Have you confirmed the girlfriend - boyfriend bit. If not, you aren't going out with her.

That said, even if it is just a casual thing but you want more, then I wouldn't risk spoiling it by cheating.

[Bernsville]

Get a bird at the festival, and then scuttle the living shit out of her.  Really go to town on her, the filthier  the better.  Then imagine another bloke doing what you have done, to Amanda.  If the thought fills you with rage and jealousy then you are already emotionally involved, and hence in a relationship.  If you are in a relationship then what you are doing is cheating.
If you aren't really fussed about Amanda being involved in 3 hole violation with another man, then go for it, you won't be cheating.
The fact you feel the need to ask, means that your morals are taking a twanging.